“No one in this world can love a girl more than her father.”
Michael Ratnadeepak
The function of father originates with God, our heavenly father, and is a divine role and calling, according to the Bible. It is possible to become like God and to love and care for children in the same ways that God loves and cares for us by being a father, stepfather, grandfather, or foster father.
One of the strongest relationships in life is undoubtedly the one between a father and daughter. I can attest to this firsthand since even though my father is not physically here in my life, I feel his presence all the time. My father and I had a close relationship, and that relationship undoubtedly laid the groundwork for how I should be treated in other relationships as well as what I should anticipate and endure. If a lady has the chance to develop a relationship with her father, that will ultimately be her first and greatest love. I have always known that my father is intelligent, but I was unaware of the impact his knowledge or guidance would have on the rest of my life. It was said to me from an early age that I was an old spirit in a youthful body, and I think my father was too. A young woman’s conception of herself and her body can be set up by her father. When their fathers are present and kind toward them, young girls learn to perceive themselves favorably. Dads who unconditionally love and support their daughters are more likely to see their daughters develop positive body images.
“A daughter is a treasure and a cause of sleeplessness.”
Ben Sirach
It’s strange that I’m spending my first Father’s Day without my dad. A few weeks earlier, there seemed to be a gap. Normally, I would be discussing our plans for him this year with my mother. The only people who truly understand how empty and alone I feel are my mother and other people who have also lost a parent. It appears as though the entire strong foundation that my parents and I built has become unstable. I don’t know much anymore, besides living is hard because death is simple. There is so much I wanted to do for him and with him that I feel as though my purpose is in doubt right now. My father joked that he would teach my kids history and French when he became a grandfather, but this can no longer happen because he passed away. I won’t be able to call him merely to hear him laugh and get the guidance I require in any given circumstance. “You’re so beautiful and smart,” came after the tender hugs and kisses. No more fantasies of my father escorting me down the aisle and giving me away to a man he trusted. As I watch others live out their dreams, it’s difficult for me to accept that mine will never come true.
“Fathers, be good to your daughters. You are the god and the weight of her world.”
John Mayor
Since my dad passed away, I’ve been doubting everything about myself. What do I actually want out of life right now? How am I supposed to pick myself up and move on without him? No one is aware of an answer besides that “it takes time”. The only appropriate response in this kind of anguish would be time. The most valuable resource on Earth is time. I believe it is only proper to make the most of the present and live life in his honor. Even though I mourn him terribly, I am incredibly grateful for the many wonderful memories I have of my father. Being his daughter and even having his name is an honor, and I’m proud of my father.
My father and I had a number of chats before he went. Do you believe you have lived your life to the fullest? I questioned. What impression do you believe you’ll make on others, he replied, “Yes, I did. I never treated anyone differently no matter what room I was in”, according to my father. The memorial service for my father made it clear to me that he had an impact on not only myself but also everyone he came into contact with. His heart was as pure as it was possible to be, and his soul was as sweet as a sugar cane. I wonder when I will feel okay and my heart will feel whole once more.
My father is the source of my knowledge and compassion. I would have given my life for the chance to feel his love again . Until we meet again I sincerely love and miss you, Papa, Happy Father’s Day.
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